The Costs of Hiding the Real You – Episode 2: Have you ever walked into a room, showed up the “right” way, said the “right” things—and still walked away feeling invisible?
In this episode of the Being Relatable Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on the real, hidden costs of hiding your full self—and why your next level of connection, confidence, and opportunity starts the moment you stop shrinking.
You didn’t start hiding because you’re weak—you did it to survive. But keeping parts of yourself tucked away has a cost. Today, we’re talking about what that cost is—and how you can start reclaiming your energy, your alignment, and your real connections without needing to be louder, flashier, or perfect.
If you’re ready to stop blending in and start building a life where you feel seen, heard, and celebrated—this one’s for you.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why hiding parts of yourself feels safer—but costs more than you realize
- The 3 hidden costs of shrinking (and how to spot them in your life)
- Simple, powerful ways to start “unmuting” your real self starting today
- How small shifts in your energy and voice can open doors to real relationships
- Why being relatable isn’t about being polished—it’s about being present
Action Steps to Take After Listening:
- Micro-Bravery Challenge: Share one real thought or feeling this week
- Energy Audit: Identify 3 places where you feel most yourself—and 3 where you don’t
- Unmute Yourself: Share one ambition, opinion, or quirk you usually hide
- Hype Authentically: Celebrate another woman’s energy, not just her achievements
- No-Masking Boundary: Choose one space where you refuse to filter or shrink
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