Today’s pep talk is for the Chick who keeps waiting to “feel confident” before she moves.
Welcome back to Being Relatable. This is part of my Hype Yourself Up Pep Talk Series, where I’m helping you let go of what you are not taking into 2026 and step into a HYPE worthy year.
You do not actually have a “confidence problem.” You have a “receipts problem.” Confidence is not a personality trait you either have or do not. It is built by taking actions, collecting evidence, and realizing, “Oh. I can do this.”
Right now, you may be looking at every place you fell short and treating it as proof that you are not ready. But for every moment you doubted yourself, there is also a moment you showed up, figured it out, or tried again.
Question to ponder: If you only judged yourself by the times you got back up, what would you see in yourself?
Tiny action: Make a short list of three moments you did something hard or uncomfortable and got through it. Keep that list in your phone. That is your confidence evidence file. Look at it before you take your next brave step.
Take this a step further: If you’re done waiting to “feel confident” before you move, come join us for the HYPE Worthy Year Bootcamp. We’ll break your goals into small, brave steps so you can start collecting real evidence that you can do hard things.
You owe it to yourself to have a life, career, and relationships that hype you up, and I’m here to cheer you on every step of the way. Join us for the HYPE Worthy Year Bootcamp.
